His last words " You deserve a happy and a normal life so i don't want us to be in contact any more". That was the end of a Love story. I don't agree !!! not because i don't believe on Love at all but i do believe in understanding and trusting each other. How can one partner takes decision in a relationship. How does he knows if he will not be around she will live happily. We hardly heard a complete happy ending love story ever. Reason???
Basically we are not born with knowledge or personality, we
acquire those from society. Whatever we experienced in life, we add that in our
behavior. We don't know particularly what we want as a normal human
being. We called hunger to craving, anger to frustration, love to attraction,
need to addiction. Well In case of love, poets and authors tried to define love from
centuries. Many of us know intuitively that love is a major purpose for
living; that connection is inherent in all that we do, and without love, we
cannot survive as a species. According to a friend " The
Art of Loving,There is hardly any activity, any enterprise, which is started
with such tremendous hopes and expectations, and yet, which fails so regularly,
as love."
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Above all mentioned myths and
theories identifying that we don't know what exactly we want. Love is
a feeling for other person or thing. But we use the word Love,
for a relationship in which two people need to understand and respect
while trusting each other. The ancient Greeks had many different names for
different forms of love: passion, virtuous, affection for the family, desire,
and general affection. But no matter how love is defined, they all hold a
common trait: caring and trust. So we need to know our right feelings for
others and start trusting those feelings.
A relationship starts with mutual understanding and if
needed, it ended up in a same way. But Love always stays there, deep inside,
because it's love not an addiction which can have a cure.
Dedicated to all "Ashiqui 2" fans :)
8 comments:
v,true! I like this note, keep it continue.
Its very near to reality..its a nice effort...Most essential element for any relationship is TRUST
:P
True love is unselfish, you fight for it but there are situations that you also let go if you think this is the best way to do
There is only one kind of a love which remains forever. That is the "Unconditional Love". You put conditions in love and it will eventually fade away or slip out of your hands and you wont be able to do anything about it. Unconditional love is like mother's love for son, dad's love for daughters, brother's love for sister and vise-versa... When 2 people starts loving each other (in case of affair or a relationship), they should never put any sort of conditions in it. Once a condition is there, personality starts changing. And you change your personality, you change everything... Think about it!
Understanding is greater than Love!!
understanding each other is part of love, and we saw couples who don't have understanding but the love exist. but overall nice writeup!and i am not a fan of 'Ashique 2', i hate this movie!
This post is all subjective and based on prehistoric cirrhotics.
In todays world, there is no thing as "understanding", in my opinion our lives are based on compromises - be it a spouse, family, friends or job.
Love is a temporary relief to our metabolism, where we are taken into UTOPIAN land.
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