Wednesday, June 1, 2011

Basic Instinct


A very old saying always admire me “Man is fire, woman is water. The man's fire brings the woman's water to boiling”.  They see each other, fell in love and then start a very beautiful love story. Usually we missed the most important thing in any kind of relationship is “understanding between each other”. Mostly men complain that they don’t understand a woman.  I disagree with them because a woman is very easy to understand by their body language. One has to be very honest and attentive to catch the signals.
It reflects emotional interest in both sexes. Body language messages are sent automatically and unconsciously. They mirroring the unspoken words “understand what I want right now”. Women are not, as men are, immediately inspired by sight. They need more time. They need the right atmosphere, some romance; sometimes candles and soft music can help.
“A woman can say more in a sigh than a man can say in a sermon”.  ~Arnold Haultain. Women send approximately five times more body language messages read body language much better than men. She uses her eyes, hair, fingers, and body movement to express her feelings either she is interested or not.
Let’s talk about her finger movements; if she pushes her fingers through her hair, she is looking to get your attention. If she bent her fingers continuously that means she is not comfortable with you or t hat place. She moves or touch her fingers on the edge of the glass or plate, it as a sexual sign of self-control and waiting.
Usually eye contact is the major weapon a woman has. She twinkle her eye just after having a glimpse of you, that means you are the lucky guy and she is interested. Her eyes search for you all the time, which is desperation in a woman for you. If she leans on her hand with her chin and her eyes seem to be thinking, it’s not the sign of her being impressed by you. Most of the time woman are confused at that moment about either they are ready for this relationship or not.
Her smile is a sign of “You are most welcome”. A stunning smile is a sign for adoring you. Avery deep smile say to you that she is interested, come closer to her. Same if she touches you lightly that is also a good sign for you. Swinging legs is also a sexual invitation. Dangling one shoe while seated in a comfortable position, with one leg crossed over the other knee, is one of the most passionate signals woman use to point toward the interest in a male.
Woman adjusts clothing with opening or exposing actions that is also a sign to get attention to her body. Do not stare at the woman's cleavage if she has it partly exposed. Try to resist the enticement!
She knows she has a beauty so staring make her uncomfortable. Try to find anything that indicates a level of nervousness. This shows that she is attracted to you and is having trouble composing herself.  Generally, these signals appear in after every 10 to 20 seconds and very naturally. The other purpose of these actions is to show the other person that you accept and respect their views without them noticing it. Her body movement is like a mirror of her emotions, feelings and need. One needs to understand and reply.

4 comments:

Farrukh Khan said...

A nicely written article for men, one aspect which is missing is the mutual feeling of respecting each other emotions. This never implies to the physical relationship, it is the pleasure of having the company.
As for the gestures-they are very aptly put across-but how many would remember them?
Atleast someone is brave enough to put it across. Does it mean that Nancy Friday is acceptable to our women NOW ?

Unknown said...

Boy! You talk too much

Unknown said...

Ship to shore

TOMODACHI said...

The time is running out and the man and woman needs to understand fully to each other and if seems perfect than express their feelings to each other without losing the time.