The Power of Positive Energy in Your Life

I strongly believe in the incredible impact that the energy of the people around us can have on our lives. You might be surprised to learn just how much energy of others can affect our day, our mood, and our Life. It’s a complete science of body vibes.  

Let me elaborate: Have you ever noticed how someone with a good attitude can lift your spirits? However, spending time with someone who has a Negative energy and attitude in life might drain you. This is energy's power. It happened to me repeatedly. if someone tries to convince me that only they are the best person on earth by being nasty towards others or by criticizing everything around them. Because ultimately this negative individual will not leave me out of their criticism, it drains my energy and demotivates me. I try to avoid these people at all costs.

Positive vibes are like a warm hug that welcomes you in. You experience peace, joy, and safety as a result. When you're in the presence of someone who exudes positive energy, you feel revitalized and inspired. Negative people, on the other hand, frequently add criticism, Complaints, and rumors to the conversation. Their energy might make us feel tense, anxious, and insecure. 

Most of the time, we may not even be aware of how people are affecting us or how we are being affected by them. You become more aware of who you want to spend time with as you pay more attention to the energy of individuals around you. It's crucial to stay away from people that regularly drain your positive energy, or who are energy vampires. 

Instead of employing techniques to shift back into a good frame of mind, we frequently remain in negative energy for too long. 

You have the power to create a positive and motivating environment, whether it's at home or in the office. Don't wait for others to initiate the change; start by evaluating the energy around you and within your company and home life. Be accountable for the energy you bring with you, as I frequently advise others to do since it has tremendous power. Be aware of how your energy impacts the people and things around you by periodically reflecting on it. 

Finally, don't forget to take a big breath. Your energy has an impact on the world, whether it is positive or negative. Accept the power of optimism and observe how it changes your life and the lives of people you meet.

Happy Living !!!!

And They Said It Would Never Last!!!

His last words " You deserve a happy and a normal life so i don't want us to be in contact any more". That was the end of a Love story. I don't agree !!! not because i don't believe on Love at all but i do believe in understanding and trusting each other. How can one partner takes decision in a relationship. How does he knows if he will not be around she will live happily. We hardly heard a complete happy ending love story ever. Reason???

Basically we are not born with knowledge or personality, we acquire those from society. Whatever we experienced in life, we add that in our behavior. We don't know particularly what we want as a normal human being. We called hunger to craving, anger to frustration, love to attraction, need to addiction. Well In case of love, poets and authors tried to define love from centuries. Many of us know intuitively that love is a major purpose for living; that connection is inherent in all that we do, and without love, we cannot survive as a species.  According to a friend " The Art of Loving,There is hardly any activity, any enterprise, which is started with such tremendous hopes and expectations, and yet, which fails so regularly, as love." 

Above all mentioned myths and theories identifying that we don't know what exactly we want. Love is a feeling for other person or thing. But we use the word Love,  for a relationship in which two people need to understand and respect while trusting each other. The ancient Greeks had many different names for different forms of love: passion, virtuous, affection for the family, desire, and general affection. But no matter how love is defined, they all hold a common trait: caring and trust. So we need to know our right feelings for others and start trusting those feelings.

A relationship starts with mutual understanding and if needed, it ended up in a same way. But Love always stays there, deep inside, because it's love not an addiction which can have a cure.    Dedicated to all "Ashiqui 2" fans  :) 

Basic Instinct

A very old saying always admire me “Man is fire, woman is water. The man's fire brings the woman's water to boiling”.  They see each other, fell in love and then start a very beautiful love story. Usually we missed the most important thing in any kind of relationship is “understanding between each other”. Mostly men complain that they don’t understand a woman.  I disagree with them because a woman is very easy to understand by their body language. One has to be very honest and attentive to catch the signals.

It reflects emotional interest in both sexes. Body language messages are sent automatically and unconsciously. They mirroring the unspoken words “understand what I want right now”. Women are not, as men are, immediately inspired by sight. They need more time. They need the right atmosphere, some romance; sometimes candles and soft music can help.

“A woman can say more in a sigh than a man can say in a sermon”.  ~Arnold Haultain. Women send approximately five times more body language messages read body language much better than men. She uses her eyes, hair, fingers, and body movement to express her feelings either she is interested or not.

Let’s talk about her finger movements; if she pushes her fingers through her hair, she is looking to get your attention. If she bent her fingers continuously that means she is not comfortable with you or t hat place. She moves or touch her fingers on the edge of the glass or plate, it as a sexual sign of self-control and waiting.

Usually eye contact is the major weapon a woman has. She twinkle her eye just after having a glimpse of you, that means you are the lucky guy and she is interested. Her eyes search for you all the time, which is desperation in a woman for you. If she leans on her hand with her chin and her eyes seem to be thinking, it’s not the sign of her being impressed by you. Most of the time woman are confused at that moment about either they are ready for this relationship or not.

Her smile is a sign of “You are most welcome”. A stunning smile is a sign for adoring you. Avery deep smile say to you that she is interested, come closer to her. Same if she touches you lightly that is also a good sign for you. Swinging legs is also a sexual invitation. Dangling one shoe while seated in a comfortable position, with one leg crossed over the other knee, is one of the most passionate signals woman use to point toward the interest in a male.

Woman adjusts clothing with opening or exposing actions that is also a sign to get attention to her body. Do not stare at the woman's cleavage if she has it partly exposed. Try to resist the enticement!

She knows she has a beauty so staring make her uncomfortable. Try to find anything that indicates a level of nervousness. This shows that she is attracted to you and is having trouble composing herself.  Generally, these signals appear in after every 10 to 20 seconds and very naturally. The other purpose of these actions is to show the other person that you accept and respect their views without them noticing it. Her body movement is like a mirror of her emotions, feelings and need. One needs to understand and reply.

Smile, You are on Date

People usually say that “Dating is a thrill! Don’t go after them, Let them chase you”.  Oh yes! this is a result oriented line but most of the time dating can be confusing, challenging, volatile or pleasurable. The idea of being in love can be very terrifying but not if love is in the air. Most of us get confused if they have to go on a date or plan a date. “Oh Gosh what to do, what to wear or what will happened”. There is no science in it. If one will follow some very simple steps they can make those pleasurable moments, unforgettable.  

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  •    Try to be punctual not late. Being early will also show that you are dying for that date 
  •       For a perfect date, choose a place of a mutual interest. Both of you will be more comfortable if the place is peaceful.
  •    Don’t take stress about the look, just be yourself and let the body odor works for you. Yes the perfume is the strongest weapon you can have to conquer others heart.
  •     Try being entertaining and humorous. Don’t talk too much, let them talk.
  •      A little romance can make the date a perfect one but not too much especially on the first date.
  •      Try to note their action or motions that can express their feelings very prominently. The way they talk, move their hand or body, their eyes or smile……
  •  You can have a drink on the date instead of going for a dinner. The most important is to be with him/her in romantic environment, to show your feeling and share their emotions.  
  •      Man and woman both want to hear something sweet, romantic and loveable. Whisper something to tell them that they look beautiful. They want to hear it and your words can win their heart.
  •     After the date show the desire, this will grab their interest. Some messages, phone calls or a gift can work more than you expect.
  •     Your approach, conversation and interest to the person are a lot more important than action.

So we have discussed the ways for the first date but there are still a lot of ways to make the date an unforgettable. The most important is to understand the opposite sex, their feelings and need. This is how you can be more comfortable to handle the situation and express your feeling after all Love is in the air J

A small love story

“Do you even know your way around in Arabian Ranches?” I asked rather sarcastically.

“Yes, I do.” He spoke softly. I could barely hear him. “She lives there.”

It was my turn to be quiet while he continued.

“I dropped her at her place quite often. I know which gate is where.”

“Good.” I tried lightening things up. “So you won’t have trouble finding my place.”

“And I know the Emirates Road like the back of my hand and all the exits that come out of it.” He spoke like he was in a trance. “She always missed the exit to Silicon Oasis. Every time she left home to go to Silicon Oasis on Emirates Road, she would call me and ask me for which exit to take. I always said to her that it was about time she remembered the exit. She always said ‘you are there, aren’t you?’

I kept quiet. There was no point in saying anything really.

“It’s been almost a year since we last spoke but she called me day before yesterday. She was going to Silicon Oasis. She asked me which exit she should take. I told her the way and said to her in the end that it was about time she remembered the way. She said thanks to me but did not say the same thing that I wanted her to say. She didn't say, ‘you are there, aren’t you?’
 I looked at him. He hands were firm on the steering wheel and he drove without moving.

“It took her five years to thank me.” He finally turned towards me. “Its funny isn't it?”

“It is.”

 I replied and put my head on the head rest.

from Sami Qahar

Love your Tweets

Social media is always a mystery for me. The more I involved, the more I explore. Dont you think today’s attention is focused on popular recreational social media platforms such as YouTube, Facebook and Twitter. People who jumped into social media early have been developing guidelines and standards ad hoc, but it makes sense to analyze their progress. Most of the people think that all the platforms perform same functions (misconception). Yes! that is the BIG mistake people do and that’s why they don’t get the right result from any platform. Recently I saw an email from a friend asking about how to get the fine result from Twitter?

Well this was the most interesting email for me because I was also new at Twitter. But for a favor, I researched about how to use twitter. I figured out that most of us don’t know about what are the common do’s and dont’s? Today I want to share that research with all my friends and readers.

Your twitter account should be an extension of your personality. If you are not using your own picture or company logo this will be a big mistake. People respond to personalities, show that there is a human behind those tweets. If you have been exhausted by tweeting, try alternate options. Use automatic tweet system if you are not available. This will help you out but don’t leave your twitter alone. Timing your tweets give you a larger reach and makes you look much more professional. Your tweet should be creative. Nobody cares about you, if there is nothing to grab their attention.Your followers are the treasure for you so don't loose them with these small mistakes.

 

People want to hear something new and exciting; a RT is something that has been said already.  Use them sparingly. Twitter is the best social media platform for starting a conversation with new people. This can have a positive impact on your other potential Twitter followers. I hope these entire mistakes you guys avoid doing and making twitter more useful for yourself or your company. Best of luck!!!   

Home Schooling

Home schooling! We often heard this name but never realized what is it? It is a kind of a choice made by some parents to provide elementary education to their children in their own home. Many parents are frustrated by unsafe condition, high fees schedule or lack of religious environment. There are so many other advantages for homeschooling such as with more personal attention, children often understand the material more quickly instead of lagging behind because they don't understand. Parents also like being able to enjoy more time together as a family, instead of a few hurried hours in the evening.

On the other hand I will not ignore the disadvantages also. Home schooling is often lonely because children aren't socializing with other children their own age. Parents loose temper instantly rather than a teacher which are more trained and have control on their emotions. Usually parents think that they are not qualified to handle homeschooling. But the reality is that when you use the resources available in the community, there are very few limitations. The parent doesn't need to know it -- the parent needs to know how to find it. That's homeschooling.

Homeschooling can be rewarding, but can also be overwhelming and frustrating if your confidence is not there.  Time spent researching; planning and getting inspiration can challenge even the most organized mom. My friend, Donna Ashton created The Waldorf Connection to give homeschoolers access to experts, teachers & visionaries. All workshops are done “online”, so you can listen in your pajamas after the kids are in bed! Or, download to your Ipod. You can learn more by visiting her website. http://thewaldorfconnection.com/