Smile, You are on Date

People usually say that “Dating is a thrill! Don’t go after them, Let them chase you”.  Oh yes! this is a result oriented line but most of the time dating can be confusing, challenging, volatile or pleasurable. The idea of being in love can be very terrifying but not if love is in the air. Most of us get confused if they have to go on a date or plan a date. “Oh Gosh what to do, what to wear or what will happened”. There is no science in it. If one will follow some very simple steps they can make those pleasurable moments, unforgettable.  

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  •    Try to be punctual not late. Being early will also show that you are dying for that date 
  •       For a perfect date, choose a place of a mutual interest. Both of you will be more comfortable if the place is peaceful.
  •    Don’t take stress about the look, just be yourself and let the body odor works for you. Yes the perfume is the strongest weapon you can have to conquer others heart.
  •     Try being entertaining and humorous. Don’t talk too much, let them talk.
  •      A little romance can make the date a perfect one but not too much especially on the first date.
  •      Try to note their action or motions that can express their feelings very prominently. The way they talk, move their hand or body, their eyes or smile……
  •  You can have a drink on the date instead of going for a dinner. The most important is to be with him/her in romantic environment, to show your feeling and share their emotions.  
  •      Man and woman both want to hear something sweet, romantic and loveable. Whisper something to tell them that they look beautiful. They want to hear it and your words can win their heart.
  •     After the date show the desire, this will grab their interest. Some messages, phone calls or a gift can work more than you expect.
  •     Your approach, conversation and interest to the person are a lot more important than action.

So we have discussed the ways for the first date but there are still a lot of ways to make the date an unforgettable. The most important is to understand the opposite sex, their feelings and need. This is how you can be more comfortable to handle the situation and express your feeling after all Love is in the air J

A small love story

“Do you even know your way around in Arabian Ranches?” I asked rather sarcastically.

“Yes, I do.” He spoke softly. I could barely hear him. “She lives there.”

It was my turn to be quiet while he continued.

“I dropped her at her place quite often. I know which gate is where.”

“Good.” I tried lightening things up. “So you won’t have trouble finding my place.”

“And I know the Emirates Road like the back of my hand and all the exits that come out of it.” He spoke like he was in a trance. “She always missed the exit to Silicon Oasis. Every time she left home to go to Silicon Oasis on Emirates Road, she would call me and ask me for which exit to take. I always said to her that it was about time she remembered the exit. She always said ‘you are there, aren’t you?’

I kept quiet. There was no point in saying anything really.

“It’s been almost a year since we last spoke but she called me day before yesterday. She was going to Silicon Oasis. She asked me which exit she should take. I told her the way and said to her in the end that it was about time she remembered the way. She said thanks to me but did not say the same thing that I wanted her to say. She didn't say, ‘you are there, aren’t you?’
 I looked at him. He hands were firm on the steering wheel and he drove without moving.

“It took her five years to thank me.” He finally turned towards me. “Its funny isn't it?”

“It is.”

 I replied and put my head on the head rest.

from Sami Qahar